Friday, March 9, 2012

Helping Xander with His Binkie

Gabriella loves to "help" Xander with things. This is a video of her helping him hold his binkie. 
He tolerates her "helpfulness" quite well!

We played outside for a little while today since the weather was unseasonably warm and sunny (it was snowing and hailing three days ago). Gabriella had fun running back and forth between inside and outside yelling and laughing. 

She came in at one point and yelled, "I! Love! You!" She is trying to learn how to sign "I love you" with her hand. So cute!

Whats not to love about this picture and little man???

Monday, March 5, 2012

Lemon Juice

We try to let our kids make choices in things, especially things that aren't super important (like what clothes to wear, what color of juice they want, how many pony tails in Gabriella's hair, etc) as outlined in Danny Silk's series "Loving Your Kids on Purpose" (check it out at http://www.ibethel.org)

Basically it allows your children to learn responsibility and accountability at a very young age, so that as they grow they understand consequences and results from their choices and actions.

At my mom's house Sunday, Gabriella got into the fridge and wanted to try some lemon juice that she pulled out of the door. So, we let her try it.

Friday, March 2, 2012

Face Time with Grampa Ace

Both our kids have absolutely adored my grampa, Grampa Ace. When Gabriella was colicky and would scream constantly, she would always stop when Grampa Ace talked to her. Now she calls him "Big Boppa" and loves to go visit him and play with him.

A couple nights ago we were over visiting and Grampa crawled down on the floor to talk to Xander.
Xander immediately got a HUGE smile on his face and laid there kicking his feet and "talking" back to Grampa for at least 10 minutes without looking away from him. It was so precious! 


Wednesday, February 29, 2012

Xander Medical Update

Well, we've had a TON of doctors appointments in the last month for little Xander. We finally have an official diagnosis and a plan. Phew!

Okay, when he was first born we noticed a high-pitched wheezing sound that he made when he nursed. Then it started happening every time we laid him down to sleep, when he spit-up and at random times throughout the day. I took him to the doctor when he was a month old to get it checked. She listened to a recording that I made of the noise (imagine an overweight asthmatic right after they ran a sprint wheezing into a microphone). Her exact words were, "thats quite an impressive noise" and sent us straight to the hospital for a chest x-ray.

When the X-ray came back normal (praise Jesus!) we were sent to an ENT (Ear, Nose and Throat specialist).
Their office was super scary to walk into. All kinds of metal pokey things, tubes, machines, etc. I was really glad that Xander didn't know what was going on. 

He was a super sport about it all. The doctor used a camera-scope to look up both nostrils and down his throat. Xander was super mad about it being in his nose, but when they stuck it down his throat he started sucking on it. It was so cute!

Anyways, the ENT told us that Xander's pallet was perfectly formed (again, praise Jesus!) and sent us to the hospital for an Airway Flouroscope and Swallowing Study. 

Two days later we were at the hospital for his tests. Once again, he was a good sport but not very happy about it. 
(this is the flouroscope machine. The picture is blurry cuz I was trying to take it without getting caught!)

They had him drink some barium stuff and it lit up on the tv screen. Even my untrained eyes could see very clearly what was wrong, his trachea was collapsing with every breath. Then he started to spit-up the barium. 

So, after talking to the radiologist and the ENT again, we went back to his pediatrician today. 

Xander officially has laryngomalacia and congenital tracheomalacia combined with GERD (gastro-esophageal reflux disease). He also has an umbilical hernia and a ventricular wall hernia. 

Laryngomalacia is a weakened cartilage of the larynx, or "voice box" that is very common in infants. It causes the cartilage to mildly collapse when he inhales, which makes a mild wheezing sound. Congenital Tracheomalacia is very uncommon in infants and is always accompanied with either heart problems, developmental delays or GERD. The trachea cartilage is weakened and collapses (usually) on exhale. Xander's is collapsing on an inhale. Basically, when his lungs fill with air and expand, it should be pulling his trachea open (like it does normally for us). His cartilage is too weak and the pressure inside his chest from his lungs expanding is causing the trachea to collapse. That is what is causing the horrible wheezing sounds. As far as the complications that it is always accompanied with so far he is only showing signs of the GERD (a huge praise JESUS!) and is right on track developmentally. Both of these conditions should fix themselves by the time he turns 2. 

The umbilical hernia is from his umbilical chord being thick and poking through his stomach muscles and lining. They expect it to heal on its own by the time he turns one. 
The ventricular wall hernia is one was have to keep a close eye on. It is part of his intestines that are poking through his abdominal wall. If it gets bigger or hardens, we will have to discuss surgery to fix it as it can cause more complications than the umbilical hernia. 


Our plan for now is to put him on reflux medicine to cut down the acidity of his spit-up. We have to keep him elevated during and after feedings for 30 minutes. We also have to keep a close eye on him for turning blue (indicating he isn't getting enough oxygen) and pneumonia symptoms (babies with tracheomalacia are much more susceptible to respiratory infections since they aspirate their milk/food much more easily), which also means that we will be very careful with him being around anyone with a cough or cold. Plus keeping an eye on the two hernias. 

*sigh*

Its been a crazy month of appointments and researching, but we are so thankful to have a definitive diagnosis for the noises and complications that keep me up most of the night listening to so I can make sure he is okay still. Matt and I are both thankful that all of these "problems" are no match for our awesome "Problem Solver"! Jesus is good, all the time!


We appreciate your prayers for Xander and his health, that these conditions would heal quicker than normal, and that he wouldn't experience any of the possible and likely complications from them. Thank you so much!!

We love our little man so much and are looking forward to seeing all the good that God has in store for him out of this situation! 



Monday, February 27, 2012

Gabriella's 2 Year Check-Up

We went to the dr today for Gabriella's 2 year check up.

She is now 28.6 lbs (70th %), 34 1/2 inches tall (75th%) and he head is still in the 90th%. Ber BMI is 17 (50th%). So she is doing perfectly with her growing. 

Developmentally she is still "significantly advanced for her age". 

I love my silly little girl so much! The last two years have been a blast!

Sunday, February 26, 2012

ABCs, Dora, Jingle Bells and Itsy-Bitsy SPider Songs

Gabriella has recently started singing songs. Here are a few of her favorites!

The ABCs song. She can identify letters A-F and a few other random ones. But when she sings they get all garbled together. So cute!

A little bit from Dora. 


Here is Jingle Bells, or as I like to call it, Ningle Bells. It is my personal favorite of all her songs!

Itsy-Bitsy Spider. 

I just love how much she loves to sing! So precious!!

Thursday, February 23, 2012

Gabriella vs Xander in Pictures

Gabriella at one month

Xander at one month

Gabriella at three months

Xander at one and half months

I love similar their faces are, and the way that both their faces light up when they smile!!